If feel sorry for her because she is younger than me but so obese, plus she has no teeth at all and has hepatitis C. I bring her gifts like food and clothes and paid for her hotel room for he wedding when she married a man in need of a green card.
She is poor and needy, and I am somewhat well off because I worked hard when I was younger.
I find this comment about my breast which she’s repeated several times now both aggravating and derogatory. Even insulting. I never let on I was offended.
Shes about 49 and I’m 57/. Do you think she is trying to make me feel bad, self conscious and freakish or am I being too sensitive?
Would you disappear from her life if you were me or would you continue to show her kindness and help her out in spite of this rude way of referring to a part of myself I felt fine about except since her comments.
Shes on welfare and foodstamps and has a bad relationship with her only daughter who was a high school drop out while I have money I saved up from working for years so I could retire and I have a son who just graduated from college. I didn’t tell her he graduated because I didn’t want to make her feel badly.
I’m thinking of dropping her and not visiting her anymore next time goes to the hospital (paid for by the government) and not answering her calls anymore. Am I being too sensitive? I feel she is is jealous and she also maintains a friendship with a woman who broke into my house while I was with my dying father, and stole everything I owned plus my car. She calls me up to tell me how they got together. And I don’t want to hear about her because that person even killed my dogs I really loved.
If you were me would you ignore her calls and cut off this friendship inwhich I do all the giving and she does all the taking? I used to loan her money, like 20$ at a time then never asked for it back but then she mentions how she gave money to this woman who stole from me and killed my dogs when I was away. And never has offered to pay back what she ‘borrowed’ yet can afford to give money to some one who hurt me badly then brag to me about it.
Am I wrong to be thinking of cutting Rosy out of my life?
I was joking, but she really does look more pregnant than nine months, due to her hernia operation.
I’ve gotten wonderful feedback, supportive and painfully honest. Its really hard to choose a best answer as even the harshest answer was insigntful.
I thank you all and please don’t feel badly if I can’t choose your answer when it is just as good as the one I am forced to choose.
